Who could I be?

This blog was created by a former volunteer with the help of the volunteers and sisters involved in the 2010 Charity in the City summer program, sponsored by the Sisters of Charity of New York for women ages 18-30.

As a volunteer last year, I found the experience of service in the city remarkable because it challenges volunteers to ask the question pictured in the mural above-- Who Could I Be? They ask this question of themselves, but also from the humbling perspective of the people they serve over the course of two weeks. People on the fringes of their communities must ask, "Who could I be if I had a home? Or if I had an education? If I were healthy?"
At the end of the program and long after, we as volunteers ask the question with greater consciousness of others, and consequently of our own gifts, graces, and privileges. Who Could I Be? becomes How Can I Be?
Then, with greater strides, our journeys continue.

Tuesday, June 8, 2010

Week-Long Service Experience, St. John's Bread & Life

 photos by Goma

Reflections by volunteer Emily H., age 21

Emily will be entering her senior year this fall at college in Pennsylvania where she studies English and Japanese.

Tuesday, June 8

Today was the third day I’ve worked in St. John’s MSK (Mobile Soup Kitchen)—two more to go, and it’s definitely been an interesting experience. I’ve worked in soup kitchens before, but never on wheels or for this amount of time.

I chose to work at St. John’s because we had already done one day there as a group and I thought it would be fairly simple. It’s true that spooning vegetables into hundreds of Styrofoam containers doesn’t require an awful lot of brain power, but that means I get to think about other things, like the people to whom we’re giving the food. Unless I’m handing out the meals there aren’t a lot of opportunities to people-watch, and even then I still have to concentrate on moving as fast as possible.

However, I have stolen moments here and there to wonder about the hungry people in line—how old are they? How long have they been receiving meals from organizations like St. John’s? Why do some stand off to the side for a half an hour and then join the line? And of course I will never know.

The thing that bothers me most is that I have to assume the worst. Since we can’t give more than one serving to a person unless they have children with them or there are no more people in line, sometimes people will eat and then get back in line and pretend not to have done so. I dislike handing out the food for this reason; I have a very bad memory for faces and probably won’t remember if someone does double back.

The majority of the people who come to the van do understand that we will give seconds when everyone else has eaten, but just those few who don’t make me uneasy and also sad, because for all I know they won’t be eating anything else until the next day. I really wish there weren’t reasons to be skeptical or suspicious of those who are hungry, and maybe eventually there won’t be.

1 comment:

  1. Hi all of you in Charity in the City! Looks like you are having a terrific experience. I have been reading your reflections on your work with the people you are meeting and the reflections are inspiring. Morgan, you have a great blog spot and the photos are terrific. Some great photographic shots among them. This is my first time on a blog and first time I have ever commented on a blog. So I hope I register it OK. See you all again at some point at Mount Saint Vincent. Sr. Eileen McGrory, SC

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